What can DOGS teach us?

Rosie with my latest book Aqua Dog

What can dogs teach us when we have to teach and train them? What could we possibly learn from dogs?... The answer is plenty.

Author Lisa Van Der Wielen with her dog Rosie

I have always loved dogs and my family have always owned one. Over the years we have had many different dogs of different breeds as part of our family. I think the first lesson this taught me was to appreciate diversity and uniqueness and the understanding that we are all different and bring our own special qualities to this world. Dogs come in all different shapes, sizes and colours and are bred for certain qualities, yet each puppy is born unique, just like us. This is the ultimate example of diversity for children.

Rosie with her book

My love for dogs is apparent in my writing with all my children's books having a dog character in them. Why do I use dogs as characters in my books? Well the answer is quite simple, apart from my personal love for them, I think children relate well to this special animal. Kids are able to bond with dogs quickly and express their feelings with them. Dogs are ultimate listeners. They don't discriminate, unless they take an unliking to the postman or nextdoor neighbour that is! Dogs don't mind if a child has misbehaved all day as they are very forgiving and loyal creatures. Those canine qualities can teach us so much more in life than anything money can buy.

Dogs not only teach us forgiveness, loyalty, trust and patience, but owning a dog teaches children responsibility and compassion. To feel empathy for and look after an animal is a great way to teach children these qualities. Some children are fearful of dogs and with some time and patience and greater exposure they are able to overcome those fears, so this animal can also teach us perseverance , determination and help some conquer fears. Dogs help children with anxiety and help build their confidence and resilience.

Dogs demonstrate faithfulness and devotion to their owners, traits we need to build and maintain healthy relationships in life. Friendliness and respect are virtues dogs naturally possess. Owning a dog from a puppy through to caring for an aged canine, teaches children about the cycle of life. Losing a loved fury friend, teaches children about grief and being grateful for memories and time spent with loved ones. Owning a dog teaches us the joys and challenges of life, and how precious time is.

I know dogs aren't the animal for everyone, and the debate of Cats versus Dogs begins! Regardless of whether we own a dog or not, the positive impact these animals can have on our lives, especially children's lives is undeniable. These gorgeous animals can teach us many things, with the most important being that of unconditional love.